For some people, beauty is about a flawless face or a perfect body, yet for almost all of us, that’s entirely unachievable. We’re all born with our flaws; crooked teeth, imperfect skin, and a little extra weight around the middle. But truthfully, understanding how to be beautiful isn’t something out of reach for anyone.
For some, coming to terms with the way they look can be tough. There are so many outside influences that we are bombarded with daily. Day in, and day out, we see images in magazines and on TV shows of seemingly perfect-looking people we aspire to emulate.
In reality, we must remember that a) they have access to things we do not, i.e., makeup artists, personal trainers, etc., and b) most of the time, the photographs we see have been altered and are not a true reflection of what that person actually looks like
What does it mean to be beautiful?
Before we get into how to make yourself more beautiful, we first have to ask, what is beautiful? The truth is that beauty is subjective; what one person thinks is beautiful isn’t particularly attractive to someone else.
So, you should aim to be happy with how you look because then, you’ll radiate happiness. That glow is something money simply cannot buy.
Being beautiful isn’t necessarily just about how you look. It’s also about your personality.
Sometimes we need to change to feel good
No offense intended here, but it’s the ugly truth in life that sometimes, being yourself just doesn’t work for most of us.
People all around you may tell you that you’re perfect as you are, but if you don’t feel that way from within, can you ever confidently project your true beauty to the outside world?
Change isn’t always a bad thing, and you need to remember that sometimes, change is inevitable, whether we like it or not.
Don’t we all change all the time, for better or for worse, as we become influenced by the people around us?
As we change subconsciously over the years, sometimes we are influenced by the wrong people, or we decide to let go and take it easy. In the end, we dislike the person in the mirror.
But you can change all of that as long as you’re willing to correct the traits and habits that you think make you appear less than appealing to others.
How to be beautiful and love what you see in the mirror
If you truly want to transform into a glamorous, sexy, and oh-so-hot new you, use these easy tips to make yourself a lot more beautiful in no time!
1. A healthy face
It’s been said that a person’s face is the mirror of their soul. Are you happy and fun, or are you boring and depressed? Or are you unhealthy or less than interested in taking care of yourself?
Your face is almost always the first thing that people notice about you. So if you want to look beautiful, you need to learn to take care of it. Eat healthily, drink lots of water, and work out; you’ll start to look a lot healthier and youthful in no time.
And if you have a few nagging issues like acne or stress lines, try to take care of them. It’ll definitely make a big difference to your appearance.
2. Expressions
A pretty face looks good. But your expressions, well, that’s what makes a face beautiful or boring. The way you smile, laugh wholeheartedly, wink, or stare at someone while talking to them can make the difference between a plain jane and a beautiful and charming girl.
Even a girl who doesn’t believe she’s beautiful can transform herself into a gorgeous woman just by learning to play with her facial expressions and her gestures.
As corny as it sounds, try to stand in front of the mirror and try a few expressions, be it a wink or a smile. Why not try and express yourself better and look prettier at the same time?
3. A warm and friendly aura
Your aura is something that surrounds you all the time, and you can’t fake it.
Have you ever sat next to someone only to feel really uncomfortable and awkward all of a sudden? Or have you disliked someone the very first time you spoke to them?
Fill your mind and thoughts with warm positivity and a friendly attitude. When you feel positive, your positivity will draw others to you all the time.
4. Your poise
Walk, talk, and behave like a lady. If you stand tall, walk gracefully, and look elegant wherever you are, you’ll definitely be noticed. Remember, guys find girls fascinating because girls are so different from them.
Show off your femininity with grace, and you’ll sweep every guy off the floor with your beauty and poise.
5. Fragrances
Feminine fragrances can make a guy’s neck involuntarily spin and crack in a second as you walk past him. As humans, smell plays a big part in the game of attraction, and if you smell wonderful and leave a waft of a perfect womanly scent behind you, it’s something no guy can forget.
6. Hairstyle
A perfect haircut can accentuate your facial features and turn you into a glamorous doll instantaneously. Experiment with your hair, talk to your stylist or take a look at a few celebrity hairstyles for inspiration.
You may assume that hair doesn’t play a big part in your overall attraction, but you’ll be surprised at the difference it can make.
A perfect cut can do wonders and make you look a lot more beautiful, especially after you learn to carelessly flick your hair when the person you’re trying to impress is around!
7. Pastels and bright colors
If you want to know how to be beautiful, dress in pastels or bright colors. It’s that simple! Pastels bring out your femininity and make you look elegant and feminine instantly.
And for a manly guy, there’s nothing more attractive than a girl who shows off her femininity.
8. Glam up
It’s not silly to spend a while every day taking care of your appearance before you step out. If it helps you feel more beautiful, use cosmetics and work with different make-up styles and colors. You’ll feel more glamorous, more confident, and happier with yourself.
9. Don’t feel imperfect
What makes you feel insecure or imperfect? All of us have our own little niggles that make us feel less than desirable. Have those issues fixed, or get rid of them.
After all, if anything makes you feel less than beautiful *even if it’s an annoying sibling or a less than complimentary boyfriend*, you need to get rid of it.
Remember, beauty is a state of mind. And if you don’t feel beautiful, how can you ever project your beauty with confidence to the rest of the world?
10. Be happy
Watch happy movies, listen to happy songs, hang out with happy people, and be happy with your life. There’s nothing wrong with wanting more in life or being ambitious as long as you’re still happy today.
No one says you need to be depressed or frustrated until the day you make it big or achieve your dream of being a multimillionaire.
You’re alive today, and if you’re unhappy now, it only means you’re leading an unhappy life. Be happy and cheerful, and your infectious happiness will make you shine with beautiful radiance.
11. Get your beauty sleep
Eight hours of sleep is a luxury that few can afford these days, but you need to try and make time for good sleep. Lack of sleep and stress makes you grumpy, sluggish, and unattractive.
On the other hand, you’ll look a lot better and feel more energetic and enthusiastic about life when you’re well-rested.
12. Work with what you’ve got
First things first, stop fighting the things you can’t change. Unless you are able to save up all your money, you might just have to live with your wonky nose or thin lips—but so what? Everyone has some great features, so concentrate on the bits you do like.
Accepting who you are instead of battling against it makes life so much easier.
13. Dress for your shape
Accentuate the good parts, and conceal the ones you don’t. Work out which shapes and styles flatter you. Get a capsule wardrobe of great, well-fitting clothes, and then use accessories to make your style pop.
You’ll feel amazing, and that’s a huge part of learning how to be beautiful.
14. Find a good skincare routine
Good skin gives you that healthy, dewy glow that looks so attractive. If you have spots or pale, dull skin, get into a good skincare routine ASAP.
One of the biggest and most visible secrets to knowing how to be beautiful is to try to keep your skin clean, fresh, and well-moisturized at all times, and always take your makeup off before bed!
15. Get plenty of exercise
Okay, so we can’t all have the perfect body, but being fit and toned makes you feel healthier and more attractive on the inside and out.
By finding a sport you love, taking up an exercise class, going to the gym, or even just walking and moving around more, you’ll help to shed pounds, tone up, and make your body healthy and strong.
16. Get plenty of fresh air
Getting out and about in the countryside for some clean, fresh air in your lungs makes you look and feel so much better. It relieves the stresses and strains of everyday life and helps you feel more carefree, which will reflect on your appearance.
17. Overhaul your diet
Eating lots of fruit and vegetables, as well as lean proteins and slow-burning carbs, will improve your body shape, skin, hair, and overall health.
When your body is healthy on the inside, it shows on the outside. You’ll feel amazing too!
18. Drink lots of water
One of the secrets to knowing how to be beautiful is to drink water regularly. Keeping well-hydrated also improves your appearance, so make sure you drink lots of water and cut back on sugary drinks and alcohol.
19. Smile and laugh more
People who look happy appear far more attractive than those who don’t, so make sure you show off those pearly whites!
A smile is a lot more disarming than a frown, and people will be more inclined to speak to you if they see you smiling and radiating happiness.
20. Walk with confidence
Looking and feeling confident makes you feel more beautiful. Hold your head up high, and don’t be afraid to look people in the eye when you walk into a room.
Also, pay attention to your posture. Slumping over makes you look less attractive; straighten that back, hold your head up high, and keep your shoulders back.
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