At the age of 35 every woman should achieve these 10 goals

By the time you reach this stage in life, you have experienced the tumultuous twenties. You have attended school, enjoyed social gatherings, overcome heartaches, developed abilities, and honed your talents. At the age of 35, you exude self-assurance and feel at ease with yourself. You possess the knowledge of driving a vehicle and the skill to change tires. Perhaps you have held a few jobs or embarked on entrepreneurial ventures. Your passport bears witness to numerous visas, and you may even have the joy of being affectionately called "mummy" by a beloved child.

Ensure your seat belt is fastened, as these are the essential ten goals that should be completed on your checklist before reaching or at the age of 35.

1. Career:  It is essential to have a career, regardless of whether it is satisfying or not. The crucial aspect is to fully engage in the Job Market or Business Arena to explore and enhance your talents and skills. Talents and gifts are not unearthed through imagination or contemplation, but through practical experience.

2. Purpose:  Explore your life's purpose. Many women struggle to distinguish between a profession and a true calling. According to Steve Harvey, a career is what you receive compensation for, while a calling is what you were destined for. Each of us possesses a unique mission in life, deeply ingrained within our souls. Uncovering your life's purpose requires delving deeper into your inner self. Your calling is intricately connected to your natural talents and abilities. Discover your path and embrace the bravery needed to pursue it unwaveringly.

3. Travel Experience:  At the age of 35, it is imperative to expand your horizons beyond just three cities like Abuja,  Lagos,  London, US, and South Africa. The universe expects you to have explored at least five countries by then. By embarking on journeys, you open yourself up to awe-inspiring and unparalleled encounters. You will encounter diverse individuals, savor various cuisines, and most importantly, become a globally aware and enriched individual. There is no better way to enhance your life than through the wonders of travel.

4. Engage in a hobby: Did you anticipate this suggestion? It is important to have activities that you enjoy to help you relax or to remind yourself that life should be enjoyed. Whether it's singing, dancing, playing sports, or even playing a musical instrument, a hobby can bring out your playful side. Additionally, you may even be able to turn your hobby into a source of income. For instance, organizing karaoke events at a local venue could provide you with some extra cash, which could be beneficial in the current challenging economic situation.

5.  It is important to learn how to refuse: Do not agree to something just to please others if it goes against your own beliefs. Decline opportunities that may harm you in the future or contradict your values. For instance, refuse when friends pressure you to smoke shisha just because it is trendy. My dear, you don't need to search online to understand the negative consequences of smoking.

6. Have a circle of friends: The path called life will have so many obstacles and tough times. You need friends who will hold you down, allow you to cry and invite you gently to lean on their shoulders when it all gets tough and rocky. The famous Michael Bolton put it so well when he sang in his song Lean on me,’’ Just call on me brother when you need a hand, we all need somebody to lean on.’’

7. Start a family or deliberate on when you will start one: You should be having a baby or two and you should have a life partner by now. Even if you feel not ready to start one, you could choose a children’s home and be a partner. Remember we are all a family, the universe simply hosts us. Remember, at your death bed, your career and money will not be sitting next to you, but your family will always be there. Stop chasing money and career so relentlessly that you forfeit permanently the joy of having a family by your side.

8. Learn at least two or more languages: Language is what people identify themselves with. Learn one more local language or even foreign languages not just to get a better job or build your CV but to open yourself to the world. A new language will give you a new angle of viewing life in general.

9. Have a specific dressing style. At this age, you have tried all sorts of dress codes. You have experimented with all sorts of make up. You know your body type, what outfits look better on with and what looks terribly awkward. (and if you don’t have a clue, where on planet earth have you been?) Have a dressing code that reflects your personality and that brings out the best in you.

10. Be a wise investor: You should definitely be investing your income on real estate, on your business, on bonds and shares, on your personal development, on your future. You should be a broad investor to cushion yourself from rainy days.

At thirty five, you still have five years to start life (I am joking). Have the courage to welcome your future while dealing with today. Remember, “Twenty years from now, you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.” Mark Twain