Have you ever came across of semen retention?
What’s that, you ask? Well, it is a practice of conscious non-ejaculation. It doesn't mean you cannot masturbate or practice love making with partner. It means you do all of that & choose not to ejaculate at the end.
Be aware that you have to feel orgasm by the means you practice - but don’t ejaculate. Because orgasming & ejaculating are two separate things that were merged together once a man became of sexual age.
If you choose to go the route of semen retention you will reap so many benefits!
I am not saying never ejaculate - I am saying make a conscious choice, based on how your body feels when you self-pleasure or making love with your partner.
The frequency of when to actually ejaculate is different for each man - because we all have different lifestyles. You’ll want to consider those variables (food you eat, exercise, sleep, travel, how much love making you have or don't have, stress at work etc.) when choosing to practice semen retention.
In Tao philosophy they say that the older a man becomes the less he must ejaculate.
Ejaculation is good, when it is done mindfully. When your body feels full & you need to let the excess energy out. You need to "clear your pipes".
But what we recommend - first and foremost - is to start listening to your body & observing what you feel. Notice how you feel when you choose not to ejaculate, & notice how you feel when you do it all the time.
When you are just starting out with this practice, it might be really hard. Your body needs time to adjust & recalibrate to a new way of being. Emotions start to rear up, urges are so overwhelming that you want to ejaculate several times a day. You are detoxing. And it is unpleasant. Similarly to a juice cleanse process - you are detoxing. You feel more, become more sensitive, have more desire for connection & closeness.
You need to have stellar discipline at first. A big motivation of WHY you’re doing this.
Along the way, you will absolutely want to learn how to circulate your energy, so it is channeled into a creative, more refined life force for you & doesn’t get stuck in the sexualities.
That is where we come in and help guide & support you with the tools to breathwork, meditations, mindset practices, conscious self-pleasure practices etc. Because you will need those.
The benefits of semen retention to men
- More clarity, ability to focus, and less likely to be triggered or knocked off the center by the feminine. The feminine we are referring to is of course women, but also the chaos that work and society throw at us.
- A feeling of being seen and an experience of being attractive and magnetized for women. Family members, and especially intimate partner.
- Less tendency of being approval-seeking or outcome-dependent.
- A better ability to have a “no problem” context.
- Depression is not even in the vocabulary as it’s seldom experienced if at all. Sadness is still experienced but it is a flavor of sadness that comes with clarity and a better ability to be accepting of this healthy emotion and not confuse it with depression.
- feel more motivated to be in relationship with others.
Those are just a few.
Most men, due to being depleted of their life force energy (semen) are walking around not being potent. This causes them to be experienced by the feminine as depressed and creepy. This happens because he’s depleted all of his own energy and is motivated to find a woman as a source of this energy. He’s totally unaware and unconscious to this debilitating intention.
A woman senses this, well… because it’s her nature to feel and experience everything. She’s the genius of energy, and whether she’s aware or conscious of this or not, a depleted man will give her the experience of him being creepy, weak, and reeking of approval/pleasure-seeking energy.
